Preparation - The right moment
So you've chosen your Naked Dare location. You've scouted out the area a few days earlier, you know it well, you know your car and pedestrian routes, you know how to get away quickly and you're all set to go. You are in position and about to do the dare; in what I call the Big Moment.
I say moment, but often this period can last a while. It's the last step before actually doing the dare and alot is going on right then. Probably you're nervous, but it's a good nervous. Your body is pumping adrennaline through your system like fire. You are afraid, scarred, excited. A dozen times you don't think you can do it, but you want to.
In case you're wondering, it's the same for everyone, everytime. For as many Naked Dares as I've done, the thrill, fear and excitement are always present in that moment. Each time, every time. This is a time to be savored and relished. It's exciting. You're about to do something you like, something risky that gives your life spice and fun. You're about to be naked outside or in a public place and you're turned on by that knowledge. Enjoy the moment, it's rare and should be treasured.
When all is set, and you're ready you should make final checks on the area, the situation and who is around you. Make sure it feels right. You will always be nervous and be able to find reasons to not do the Naked Dare, but learn to seperate those out from real potential danger. Wait until things seem right to you and you think you've got the highest and best chance of success at accomplishing the Naked Dare safely. If you need to start, then stop, and start again.
At the right moment, take off your clothes and be naked. Your heart is pounding, your mind is a hazy fog and you're almost in a dream world. Now that you're naked, make one final look around before you put the first foot forward. Then go and do it.
For me personally, once I take that first step and begin the dare, the fear washes away almost completely and is replaced by a euphoric high feeling of being in the moment. I feel alive, I feel naked, I feel proud, strong and excited. Time seems to slow as I do the dare and as I distance from my clothes, the further away I get, the more free I feel and alive. If my dare includes continuing on, even if I get seen unexpectedly it gets more and more exciting knowing that I'm going to just keep going as a person comes around the corner, see's me naked. There is nowhere to hide in that moment, nothing to do but continue on and be naked and happy. If I don't wish to be seen, the excitement of needing to hide, and avoid being seen is a thrill and becomes the challange to be naked, not seen and get away with it.
. . . Matt
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Posted by: eddie hughes | August 05, 2007 at 14:13
The park I go to, in Oakland, County, Michigan...is part of the Stony Creek Park system. Most of the guys are just launching their fishing boats or out on the dock to drop a line and drink a beer. But after I have had a couple of beers and a realy cute guy pulls up...the DARE starts my heart pumping! I have already been sitting in my car naked (a towel next to me for emergencies) and I just walk out of my car and pretend I am drying off after a dip in the lake. My cock is always rock hard from the excitement of being watched. I have had some smiles, laughs and some have just shook their head and drove back out of the lot!! Yet, there is always that one, that keeps watching and stalls for time and wants to see all they can! I have invited a few for a beer! (and ended up friends!)
Posted by: Chaz | March 08, 2009 at 05:19