NitroXFlash - Nudity / Nudism / Exhibitionism

On LMT #1

Back in August, when I began searching for masseurs, the first one I came across was a guy I'll call LMT #1.  He is good at what he does, and is also good with the whole nudity and comfort thing.  I continue to see him about once every 2 weeks or so and my only complaint with him might be that he could do a little bit stronger pressure in his work.  Other than that, he's nearly perfect.  LMT #1 remains on my 'active' list of guys who are a good match and that I continue to visit.

My initial post about him below...

On Body Rubs

A body rub is almost the same as a massage in my mind, but with two distinct differences.  A body rub consists of an amateur (vs. licensed/professional) massage of the body, done by a non-licensed person.  Since it's not a professional arrangement and the purpose is more for touch, pleasure and feeling good, engaging in sexual activity during or at the end of the body rub is not at all out of the question.

For the most part, I've encountered basically two situations when giving/receiving a body rub.  One is when the rub is given to one man from another who is non-licensed to perhaps earn some extra cash.  By giving other men 'body rubs' he provides them a sensual touch experience, which usually is accompanied by a release at the end of the time.

The other circumstance is the one I'm more familiar with and it involves two men exchanging body rubs between each other.  In this way to like-minded men who enjoy giving/receiving body rubs, exchange touch with each other for fun and pleasure.  Exchanging body-rubs with other men is an incredible way to express healthy sexual maleness, explore your own body being touched in a safe and sensual way, and explore the differences in other male bodies all at the same time.  Everyone needs to be touched to some degree or another and it can be a very affirming and comforting experience, in addition to the pleasurable aspects that present themselves when two men are naked and touching.

Along this line of thinking are also some guys who simply enjoy touching attractive or muscular men and who offer to give body rubs or massage in a one-way situation.  The idea is the 'beautiful' man gets a free body rub and feels good, and the other man enjoys touching a naked man he finds attractive, which he probably, otherwise wouldn't have the opportunity to.

On Legit Massage (LMT)

This is a repost from my August Massage series, but is a good way to re-introduce the subject of massage and my views on it, as I post more.

What I look for in a massage, is the licensed man (not a woman), who has a strong touch and takes his time.  I also like to be massaged over almost the entire body, but not quite all.  Believe it or not, I don't like to be 'released' when I get a legit massage; just not my thing.  My body aches, so getting a good, quality massage is important to me, and once you introduce direct sexual contact (instead of sensual innuendo) it sullies everything and changes the dynamic.  Although I've certainly gone this route before, from that point on, it always feels that the guy is rushing through the massage to get to the 'good stuff' that he wants to do, instead of providing the stress relief that I am looking for. 

On Massage

. . .  Matt

This past summer, I wrote about my searching for massage therapists and the difficulty in finding a guy who was a good match.  I thought it might be time to follow up on how some of that turned out and my continuing search for an LMT (Licensed Massage Therapist).  I'll begin with a review of what I was looking for and continue to look for in a legitimate therapeutic massage in this next post.

On Masseur Shoppng IV

I met with the fourth massage guy (out of 4) today and tried him out as the fourth contender for my regular and repeat business.  This guy was better looking than all the other three, not a hunk or stud, but cute, mellow, friendly and very nice.  Since was the last guy on my list, I'd learned a little bit from my previous experiences these past weeks, and went beyond saying I was comfortable without the sheet over me, to stating that I was more comfortable with out it right in the beginning.

He had no issue with that, saying I could use it or not, and we had brief but thorough discussions on the non-sexual nature of the massage and were both good on what all was involved and what was not.

He did the usual showing me of the table, then closing the door and leaving the room for me to get undressed.  I actually laughed a little bit out loud as he closed the door, the whole idea of giving me privacy to get naked and lay naked on a table seems kind of absurd.  Every massage guy I've ever been to, however, does this, so it must be some deeply-instilled training they give them at the beginning.

On Masseur Shopping III

Today I got together with the third guy I'm interviewing for massage, and yesterday think I found a fourth and final guy to add to the list, I haven't yet firmed anything up with him.

This guy was big on confirming later, and didn't seem to want to lock our appointment in when I first contacted him, but was contrasted by his position after the massage (more on that later).  He was nice, not bad looking, but there wasn't any sort of 'connection' between us like there had been with the other two guys.  I didn't feel weird or uncomfortable, but did feel that something was just missing somehow.

His website had advised me that he required all new clients to be covered by a sheet until they'd developed a professional relationship with him, so I wasn't surprised when he told me to get undressed and get under the sheet and left to go wash his hands.

On Masseur Shopping II

I met with the second massage guy that I'm interviewing today and received another massage; I can't say it's a hardship doing these interviews, because I'm getting more than my usual share of body work done, which feels heavenly ;)

This guy was #2 of 4; during the day I eliminated #3 because he became somewhat adversarial during our email discussions about scheduling.  I believe if he's got a hot temper and is quick to be annoyed, he's not the kind of guy I'm going to be able to relax with and be comfortable with.  Better to find that out early.

On Masseur Shopping I

I've been 'shopping' for a new massage therapist the past couple of weeks.  The guy I have been using regularly isn't available any longer and it's tough to find just the right guy.  What I look for in a massage, is the licensed man (not a woman), who has a strong touch and takes his time.  I also like to be massaged over almost the entire body, but not quite all.  Believe it or not, I don't like to be 'released' when I get a legit massage; just not my thing.  My body aches, so getting a good, quality massage is important to me, and once you introduce direct sexual contact (instead of sensual innuendo) it sullies everything and changes the dynamic.  Although I've certainly gone this route before, from that point on, it always feels that the guy is rushing through the massage to get to the 'good stuff' that he wants to do, instead of providing the stress relief that I am looking for.